The Manly Way to Break Up With a Woman

cryingphone

I’ve seen both women and “red pill” men talk about the most respectable, masculine way to break up with a woman. Here is the general check list of how a man is SUPPOSED to end a relationship:

– Call / Message her to set up a date to meet with her
– Wait until the specific date occurs (usually up to a week)
– Tell her face to face that you’re no longer interested
– Let her get upset and cry in front of you

Here’s my question… How is putting in the time and effort to waste upwards of a week manly?

It isn’t.

So where did this idea of the “manly” way to break up come from?

Simple, it came from the women who were on the receiving end of the breakup. When a woman gets dumped, she’ll get together with her girlfriends and have a bitch-fest about the guy in question. They’ll point out every single little flaw and degrade his masculinity for the purpose of comforting the broken-hearted woman. Her friends degrade him and give confirmation that she is much better off without him. This includes the method he used to break up with her.

So what would be the masculine way of breaking up with a woman? A man can be defined by his success, so anything that’s quick, efficient, and effective would qualify as masculine. Here’s an example of how to accomplish all of this when breaking up with a woman:

Him texting her: I’m finding that we aren’t compatible, and think that we should go our separate ways. I wish you all the best in your future endeavours. Goodbye.

Her texting him: (irrelevant because they are no longer together)

Him: (Ignores text)

How long did that take? I’d say two minutes maximum, minus waiting for the text message from her which should be ignored. Why should he ignore her? Because there is no reason to hammer away at reasons, failings, problems and anything else once the relationship is dead. Nothing is going to get fixed or repaired, nor will any of this result in the couple returning to their mission of living happily ever after.

Need another good reason to execute a quick and effective breakup? It shouldn’t matter what she thinks of you after you end it. She is no longer relevant in your life, so her opinion of your chosen method of break up is irrelevant. If your method is quick and effective, then that’s all you need in order to move on to your next prospect.

Here’s a third reason which I’ve experienced personally… None of your shit gets wrecked. I made the mistake of breaking up with a woman face-to-face in my house, and she proceeded to destroy my living room. After an experience like that, I decided that the “manly” way to break up with a woman is perhaps the WORST method in getting the job done. There’s no reason to have my personal possessions destroyed simply because I’m being honest and setting her free to find someone who may cherish her just the way she is (no matter how crazy and emotionally unstable she may be).

Breaking up with her in a public location isn’t going to make it any better. Some women enjoy creating a scene in public in order to get attention from the bystanders. While she’s creating a scene, you may get approached by white nights who see it as their mission to slay any man who hurts a woman’s feelings. You are also not immune to her smashing the shit out of your car in the parking lot. Most women will NOT travel any significant distance to destroy your property, so breaking up with her using alternate means of communication makes sense.

Protect yourself, protect your assets, use your time wisely, and always have the goal to progress in your journeys through life. THAT is how a man should conduct his life. THAT is the manly way to do anything.

Advertisements

Valentine’s Day: Do’s and Dont’s

Barney - Be My Valentine, Love Barney

So I figured I should write something about Valentine’s Day which is fast approaching. I’m sure you have lots of questions such as:

– What kind of chocolates should I buy?
– How many roses should I get her?
– What kind of Lingerie will she like?
– Should I propose?
– Should I get her jewellery?

First, I must ask you why the fuck did you wait until Valentine’s day to do this stuff for her? If you’ve been with your woman for a lengthy amount of time, you should be doing stuff like this on SOME OTHER DAY. However, if you haven’t been seeing her for very long (less than a year), you shouldn’t be doing any of this shit for her.

When Valentine’s day approaches, I’m usually the first to bring it up. I tell her that I don’t celebrate Valentine’s day, due to it being a reason for big business to cash in. After I’ve said this to her, she is NOT to expect a romantic gift from me because I will not buy one.

However, Valentine’s day still has a special place in a woman’s mind. She will want to do something for you. She’s probably going to buy or make something even though you’ve told her that you don’t celebrate Valentine’s day. Even if you tell her you don’t celebrate it, you still have to honour it. You MUST spend some time with her on that day.

When you’re spending Valentine’s day with her, do NOT do the typical Valentine’s day stuff. Remember, you’re a “special” guy, not a “typical” guy. Typical guys will buy her chocolate, lingerie, or propose to her. The best thing you can do with your woman is an activity. If she likes baking, do that with her. If she enjoys board games, do that. You have to make her feel like she’s appreciated, but you don’t need store bought crap to accomplish it.

Women can appreciate a simple Valentine’s day plan.

Now, allow me to touch upon some of the more “traditional” things that go along with this corporate holiday…

Cards:
If you actually choose to celebrate Valentine’s day, a tasteful card is perfectly fine. A home-made card is much better.

Chocolate:
Chocolate will make her fat. Unless it’s a treat after something important like an anniversary dinner, don’t buy her any.

Flowers:
Flowers are best given when they’re surprises. If you jump out of a car at a red light, pick one, and hop back into the car and give it to her, you’ve done well. If you give her one after a night of passionate love making, you done well too. Hell, just showing up one day with a flower for her is good. HOWEVER, this should be done rarely. Women love flowers, but they don’t like being buried in them.

Toys:
Are you dating a six year old??? No??? Then she doesn’t need a teddy bear.

Lingerie:
This is mainly her job. She needs to buy it. You are permitted to go shopping with her to offer suggestions.

Jewellery:
This stuff is generally expensive. You should only get her jewellery when she’s proven herself to be a valuable woman. If you’ve been with her for 10 years, that’s an accomplishment. If you’ve been with her for 25, you SHOULD get her something. Women who stick by you are valuable, so there’s nothing wrong with giving her something valuable to wear. You should also NEVER give a woman jewellery because you’re WANTING to keep her. She should be earning it.

Proposing:
Since I’m not of the opinion that marriage is useful, necessary, or valuable in today’s society, I certainly won’t suggest that you should get married. However, if you by some chance THINK marriage still holds value in these days of high divorce rates, then propose to her on some other day. If she says no or the marriage doesn’t work out, you’re not going to be a bitter asshole who fucks up Valentine’s day for all the women you date afterwards.

To summarize, there is no point in going over the top for Valentine’s day. If you have a good woman, she’ll appreciate just spending time with you on Valentine’s day. Leave the chocolates in the stores for the old grannies to buy at 50% off on February 15th.